One Man's Perspective.....By Mr.Raymar

13 Reasons why you are still on the market....

First off let me say this is not directed for the chicks that actually want to be single. This is for the ones who front and say they “independent women” but actually want a man also. I’m gonna give you a little insight from a man's perspective into why your not Wifed up yet…cuz truth be told it’s not like there are no “Real Men” out there.

You talk to damn much: It may seem like a jerk thing to say, but really if you comment on every single thing all of the time, that can get tiring on the ear. Sometimes you should just chill keep your comments to yourself…don’t be a mute person, but just think before you speak.

The girls you hang with: No dude wants to be in a relationship with a girl who has no friends that they can at least think they can trust. If your girls are boy crazy.. Chances are he’s gonna think the same thing. Now of course “you are different and you aint a follower, and you make your own decisions”…. but I’m just telling you what it is.

You got to many guy friends: A wise woman once told me a girl who has no girl friends can’t be trusted. PERIOD.

You think you know everything: Fact is nobody is an expert on everything, if you were. ..you know you’d probably be GOD and since your not…chances are you don’t know everthing.

You think you know how to be a man: YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO BE A MAN…YOUR NOT A MAN. I mean you can ask ME that you respect what to expect in certain situations but for the most part listening to women that are hella single about what a relationship and a real man is sounds stupid right?..cuz obviously they don’t know as much as they are telling you. * Matriarch families are the exception, and Grandma’s…but listening to your girl friends aren’t.

You are too money hungry: Do you actually think that dudes don’t have money?…cuz we do. We just don’t like to spend it on money hungry females. If your only reason for not liking a guy is cuz he cant by you expensive stuff…it’s not him…it’s you. If he isn’t making 6 figures chill…you not either.lol.

You in love with gangsters: Dudes that are in and outta of jail..really..that’s cute ladies. You want a man that can handle you blah-blah-blah, for a logical thinking guy..he’s gonna know you love drama.

DRAMA/Negative Attitude: When is it ever gonna be just chill or a time when are you not stressing, is there ever gonna be a day when you don’t wanna curse someone out..geez after awhile it just makes you look really childish when you always in drama…and it’s bad for your blood pressure, and your skin.

Independent Woman syndrome: you act like you don’t need us at all. If that’s true then you can’t complain when your covers aren’t, keeping you warm. Now I respect your hustle and all…Bottom line is he needs to feel important and if your always tolking about what you don’t need from a man..then what you need us for???

You gave it up: You gave it up hella easy..and then think we want to wife you?? umm…big mistake…we got you already, what do we have to prove. I’m not saying to use sex as a weapon, I’m just saying be smarter about what your gonna do, and how you gonna do it.

You messy: You always talking about somebody actin’ like you haven’t don it yourself.

You think you…are that FLY: your not… now of course you can’t think about not being the flyest in the room that’s understood, but you think that you are the most attractive chick in the world..stop it…your walking a thin line. As guys we love confidence but when you stuck up…we don’t like it…just know that someone out there is able to do what you do…literally it’s not rocket science, there is always someone out there that can take your spot.

You don’t support him: If your guy has big dreams, support him! However stupid they may seem to you it’s his life. Its something he wants to do, now I’m not saying let him sit at home and not work and be a bum but if he need a boost give it to him. Just believe in him it’ll mean a whole lot. That’s the kind of stuff that makes us brag about how good our girl is.

PLEASE READ: If your offended then that means you do some of these things on the list..and if you think you don’t do any of the things on the list … your lying to yourself. I’ve done my research trust me. If you’re lying to yourself that’s probably the biggest reason, think about it.