1 Man’s Perspective: The Prettiest Girl in the Room

By Raymar

So I remember in High School...I used to want the prettiest girl in my class, in the school, and not to toot my own horn but for the most part I got her most of the time. Different hues of brown, chicks with olive skin, cinnamon tones, whatever the case may be I was prideful when talking to the girl that would make your head turn. Just being honest. I don’t think it is good to be known as being the Prettiest Girl in my room, of course I’m shallow to a certain extent, I love a pretty smile, soft eyes and a warm smile that is on top of a nice body. So what! But now I’m a little older and I’ve had my share and seen many pretty girls, they are almost interchangeable.

So this isn’t to say that I don’t want a pretty girl..No not at all, I just want females in general to know that gravity will catch up with you. Trust me I’ve seen it. Just because that smile is bright now doesn’t mean it always be as bright,...Just because you got a tight body, doesn’t mean it will always be tight. To keep a "Real Man" which all of you claim to want; you need more than some fly heels, a nice, dress, and cleavage. I think that’s what sets most chicks apart..(I use chicks because I don’t know your names), you can’t skate by on your good looks forever. It will get you out of situations with women and men, young and old but that’s because we are all shallow, but if you really want to keep him interested you need to bring some other things to the table. Smart, genuine, honesty, humor, integrity, stable, compassionate, exciting…some of these qualities the "UGLY GIRLS", yes ugly girls have, and that’s where they make up for their short comings. They may not be much at first glance but after a while a chick that you may not think looks as good has a tendency to work a certain charm and find a spot in your mind. And I don’t care what you say…isn’t that what every girl is looking for..A spot in the mind of the person they hope to have, the heart is easy to get into, in my opinion. In other words, to have true staying power you need to be able to get into their mind. So before you run out and get mad as your reading just take into consideration these points.

1. 
   Pretty Girls” can be hoes, smuts, bops, and whatever else you don’t like to be called after a guy disregards you
2. If you are charming and smart and have integrity you will last. When your looks fade and body isn’t looking the same
3. Of course it’s nice to take advantage of your physical attributes but a “Real Man” which you all are looking for will see right thru it and put you in the “Can’t be trusted”
4. Just because your pretty doesn’t mean you can’t be replaced by another pretty girl..They are a DIME A DOZEN
5. Be offended if the first thing out of a guys mouth when you say “What do you like about me?” and he says you look good in the top 3 things he describes
6. It’s your job to get yourself out of the pretty girl catergory.YOU ARE WHAT YOU SAY YOU ARE

Not to say that I don’t have eyes but, eye sight fades and you don’t want someone to have to put on glasses to realize what kind of person you are. Pretty girls are nice, they are great when you are young..But since all these girls are running around talking real man this real man that..Give me a little bit more. That is all. You have been put on notice. Thanks for reading.

Signs He's Over You.... 1 Man's Perspective by Raymar

This is a question that was posed to me by a friend. Now I’m a guy so I pretty much know exactly when we (GUYS) are over a certain lady. Now of course there are times in a relationship where both parties may be tired of the other and need a bit of space..but when it’s over ladies it’s over!!! Trust me. So here are a few signs it’s over. And look DON’T FRONT LIKE YOU NEVER TRIED TO HANG ON TO SOMETHING THAT WASN’T WORKING, AND ARE COMPROMISING JUST TO GET BACK TO HOW IT USED TO BE

1. He isn’t trying to impress you anymore: as a rule of thumb when we aren’t trying anymore it’s a wrap
2. When you call him he isn’t excited. AT all, and he shrugs you offNo matter how much you say you miss him..his reply is…”I miss you too”, with no indication of when he will make time to see you
3. He only texts you just so that you don’t complain. “Why don’t you ever text me anymore”. Easy answer. HE’S NOT THINKING ABOUT YOU
4. You no longer get those good morning or good night text
5. He isn’t trying to have sex with you anymore..And if he is, it’s just cuz it’s convenient: YES THAT MAKES YOU A BOOTYCALL NOW
6. If he doesn’t answer the phone.If he doesn’t pick up your phone call and he just used twitter from the mobile web or an iPhone app.lol..SORRY JUST DOESN’T WANT TO HEAR YOUR VOICE
7. If he tells you he needs space and months later he still needs it
8. If he makes excuses that he doesn’t want to see you, when he used to jump at the chance.

Look sometimes a guy will QUIT you, for various reasons, he is tired of you, you always complaining, you always have a negative outlook, you too emotional, just to name a few. Don’t play yourself, now sometimes a relationship can get saved but you gotta give it time, if you don’t you will get dogged and he will just regard you as a chick who he used to be into. And you’ll be put into the category of the NO COMEBACK. Trust me I KNOW.

Fitness??...Grrr! Well Not anymore...Check out these tips.

Fall is here...We all should find time to get our blood flowing and hearts pumping! Being healthy is in! There are so many DVDs, health club promos, equipment (we will probably never use) out there that it tends to get a bit overwhelming.Fitness does not always have to be boring, exhausting and how can I say "ANNOYING"..I was always told find something you love/like and turn that into a calorie burning activity! I'm not an outdoorsy person but gardening is a workout in itself!! Try raking huge mounds of leave...or finding fall veggies/plants and dig up dirt and work the soil... May not seem like a big deal but incorporating 30 minutes a day/week I can burn at least 800 calories. Not bad right? Well...Hopefully this becomes a positive outlook for you to begin the road to a healthier and more active lifestyle!!

• Go outside!!! Work in the garden or mow the grass. Rake leaves, prune, dig and pick up trash.
• Short walk before breakfast/dinner! Just start off with a 5 minute walk..but try to build up your stamina by walking 30minutes or more!
• Instead of driving to the store..try riding your bike or walking! Saves money and its better for you!
• Sit up instead of lying on the sofa when watching TV,. Throw away your video remote control. Instead of asking someone to bring you a drink, get up off the couch and get it yourself.
• Try standing while on the phone.
• If you have a dog...WALK IT!
• If its up high.. STRETCH...if its down low...SQUAT!