1 Man’s Perspective: The Prettiest Girl in the Room

By Raymar

So I remember in High School...I used to want the prettiest girl in my class, in the school, and not to toot my own horn but for the most part I got her most of the time. Different hues of brown, chicks with olive skin, cinnamon tones, whatever the case may be I was prideful when talking to the girl that would make your head turn. Just being honest. I don’t think it is good to be known as being the Prettiest Girl in my room, of course I’m shallow to a certain extent, I love a pretty smile, soft eyes and a warm smile that is on top of a nice body. So what! But now I’m a little older and I’ve had my share and seen many pretty girls, they are almost interchangeable.

So this isn’t to say that I don’t want a pretty girl..No not at all, I just want females in general to know that gravity will catch up with you. Trust me I’ve seen it. Just because that smile is bright now doesn’t mean it always be as bright,...Just because you got a tight body, doesn’t mean it will always be tight. To keep a "Real Man" which all of you claim to want; you need more than some fly heels, a nice, dress, and cleavage. I think that’s what sets most chicks apart..(I use chicks because I don’t know your names), you can’t skate by on your good looks forever. It will get you out of situations with women and men, young and old but that’s because we are all shallow, but if you really want to keep him interested you need to bring some other things to the table. Smart, genuine, honesty, humor, integrity, stable, compassionate, exciting…some of these qualities the "UGLY GIRLS", yes ugly girls have, and that’s where they make up for their short comings. They may not be much at first glance but after a while a chick that you may not think looks as good has a tendency to work a certain charm and find a spot in your mind. And I don’t care what you say…isn’t that what every girl is looking for..A spot in the mind of the person they hope to have, the heart is easy to get into, in my opinion. In other words, to have true staying power you need to be able to get into their mind. So before you run out and get mad as your reading just take into consideration these points.

1. 
   Pretty Girls” can be hoes, smuts, bops, and whatever else you don’t like to be called after a guy disregards you
2. If you are charming and smart and have integrity you will last. When your looks fade and body isn’t looking the same
3. Of course it’s nice to take advantage of your physical attributes but a “Real Man” which you all are looking for will see right thru it and put you in the “Can’t be trusted”
4. Just because your pretty doesn’t mean you can’t be replaced by another pretty girl..They are a DIME A DOZEN
5. Be offended if the first thing out of a guys mouth when you say “What do you like about me?” and he says you look good in the top 3 things he describes
6. It’s your job to get yourself out of the pretty girl catergory.YOU ARE WHAT YOU SAY YOU ARE

Not to say that I don’t have eyes but, eye sight fades and you don’t want someone to have to put on glasses to realize what kind of person you are. Pretty girls are nice, they are great when you are young..But since all these girls are running around talking real man this real man that..Give me a little bit more. That is all. You have been put on notice. Thanks for reading.